Crossposted at The Vermont Political Observer.
I’m saddened to hear of the death of Marion Milne, pioneering lawmaker, businessperson, and mother of gubernatorial candidate Scott Milne. VTDigger reports that she “died unexpectedly Monday morning at her home in Washington.”
I saw her in person for the first time at Milne’s campaign launch last month, and now I’m sorry I didn’t introduce myself and express my respect.
Marion Milne founded the family travel agency in 1975 shortly after graduating from Goddard College. That agency has grown and thrived under her leadership and Scott’s, during very challenging times for the travel agency field.
Of course, her most significant public moment came in 2000, when she was one of a handful of Republicans to vote in favor of Vermont’s groundbreaking civil unions law – the first step on the road to marriage equality. For her courage, she was voted out of office that fall after serving three terms in the State House. Today, only 14 years later, it’s hard to recall the deep passions the issue brought forth — and the consequences faced by Milne and her fellows.
From a post-election account:
Milne knew her vote could lead to the end of her career, as did others. State Rep. John Edwards, who represents two towns along the Canadian border, also got the boot in what became a single-issue race. Edwards, a former state trooper, said he started to get that sinking feeling while standing at a polling place Tuesday. He noticed the averted gazes, the voters who had never turned out before, the thumbs-up signs directed at the other two candidates.
… Edwards said he has lost longtime friends. Milne has endured slurs like “queer lover” aimed at her and her 13-year-old grandson and watched her travel agency lose business.
“There are a lot of people angry with me,” she said from her home, shaking her head.
She had endured a bitter campaign, often encountering hostility while going door-to-door and finding herself alienated from former supporters and friends. She was on the right side of history, but that must have been cold comfort at the time. And, as owner of a high-profile business that served the public, she almost certainly lost some clients as well as constituents.
Marion Milne was a hard worker till the end, as reflected in this word from the Milne family: “On the day she died, Marion had an appointment to have her hair done, planned to work at her desk in the travel agency, and attend a board meeting for the U.S. Civil Rights Commission.”
I’ve written plenty about Scott Milne’s campaign, but now is not the time for partisanship. It’s a time for respect, love, and family. My best wishes to the entire Milne family and the agency, and to Scott, now faced with carrying on a long-odds campaign shadowed by the loss of his mother and business partner.
Godspeed, Marion Milne.
Today, only 14 years later, it’s hard to recall the deep passions the issue brought forth — and the consequences faced by Milne and her fellows.
Those of us whose lives were covertly or overtly threatened during the ‘Take Back Vermont’ campaign of 2000 remember clearly the deep-seated hostility of that time.
And I remembered Marion Milne’s vote for fairness and the ‘near-equality’ represented by the then-bold step of civil unions, which led me to book my wife’s and my eventual post-civil union, pre-wedding once-in-a-lifetime “honeymoon” trip to Alaska via Milne Travel in 2009.
I even remember watching in the early spring of 2000 as some hapless activist, having been told we could sit in the House chamber during a hearing, ended up in Marion Milne’s seat about ten minutes before Rep. Milne herself arrived to occupy it for the duration of the hearing.
“I’m sorry, but you’ll have to move,” she said.
“But they told us we could sit here,” replied the activist.
“But this is my seat,” she returned. If she was thinking, “at least for the time being,” she didn’t say it out loud.
Most sincere condolences to Scott Milne and his family.
NanuqFC
The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men [and women]. ~ SCOTUS, Loving v. Virginia (1967)
pushed that issue, both in the legislature, their community or the organizations they represented. Some of those folks got the boot also, but most came back during the following era of civility.
Every legislator who stuck their neck out for equality deserves to be recognized, that is certainly true.
But for a Vermont Republican, a special nod for bravery in the face of unreasonable oppression.
Women’s Suffrage, racial equality, tax fairness (?), yada yada…. we have always been a leader. Unfortunately it doesn’t mean someone doesn’t take a bullet along the way. The first to take that reward are often the ones who stand up the tallest.
Thank you and God speed Mrs. Milne.