If I had a son
He’d be just like me
Only I don’t have a son
The war took him away
If I had a son
He’d fight for what’s right
He’d stay away from guns
Love the world and its people
But I don’t have a son
Only memories and pictures
He never got a chance
To make a better world
And now they are saying things
I find hard to believe
About sons and mothers
About right and wrong
If my son’s ghost came back
He’d shake his head
Say: “Dad, what went wrong
While I was over there?”
How could I answer him?
What could I say to explain
Away the utter emptiness
That swallowed us all up?
Say: “Son, I did what I could
But they swallowed us up.
Swallowed you up. I’m so sorry.”
I cannot forgive this emptiness
But If I had a son
We would march together
Fathers and sons across the nation
Filling up emptiness with life and love
Peter Buknatski
Montpelier, Vt.
about the loss of your son. You must be devastated.